Saturday, April 24, 2010

Reminders -- Savor Every Moment!

You may be wondering why you have not seen any new posts? I've been taking a little time to prioritize. As you can see, my last post was on February 1st -- with all the best intention of regular blogging throughout Valentines Day. On February 2nd, my father went into the ER and that began a spiraling journey of daily treks to the hospital and supporting my mother through surgeries and his eventual passing away on February 20th.

While going through all the funeral arrangements with family, I realized just how unprepared I was for that monumental task, let alone my Mom's readiness. My parents had a pre-paid funeral plan which most definitely helped -- but there were still so many decisions to be made.

While all this has been difficult -- especially the aftermath of the grieving that catches you unaware at the strangest moments, it has also been a great reminder! Savor every moment of every day -- even the difficult ones. I am so glad I was able to take almost a month and a half to fully be there -- first with my Dad, and the family, and then in supporting my Mom. I still call her every day -- I don't want to miss out on a single precious moment of chatting about the little blessings. My Dad learned that lesson well and I know that is what he would tell me now if he could.

I read something today that really struck me -- in fact, I have made a copy of it to post on the wall by my desk:  "Beware of spending too much time on matters of too little importance!" Time just flits by all too quickly on butterfly wings!

So, I have been making time to create jewelry and have tea parties with my 6 year old granddaughter. My fingers have gotten dirty while digging in the dirt planting vegetables for my kitchen garden. I've been visiting with my elderly neighbors, and walking with a friend. I've been clipping a few grape hyacinths for a tiny crystal vase to encourage my delight in the outdoors even when I cannot get there. I have been really listening when someone talks to me -- trying to hear their heart, not just their words.

I will be sharing more of the ways I am working on savoring moments in the days to come -- including sharing a project step-by-step to inspire your own creativity and savoring moments. Hope you will follow along on this journey with me!

6 comments:

Julie G. said...

Judi, what a wonderful blog and lesson passed on. It is so hard to do that, we just get so caught up in the "life" that we've made for ourselves, some of it, of our own choosing and some of it just gets thrown at us. But after you go through something like this, it really does bring your focus back to what's really important all the blessings we have and cherishing them. I look forward to more.....

ZudaGay said...

Lovely post, Judi! Thank you for the reminder of savoring every moment. The grieving does get easier with time, but it still takes me by surprise once in a great while even after years have passed.

Ramblin Mama said...

Fantastic post!! Keep them coming - we can all use reminders like this. I'm so sorry for your loss. It takes a lot of time but it does ease up some. Those tough moments eventually give way to "fond memories" and smiles. I'm sure your mom has appreciated all of your help and support.

Fun With This and That said...

Hi Judi.Hope things are better. I will be following. You alway have good saying. Do you mind if I use the one you have here today on my blog? Laura Q

Judi B said...

Yes, please feel free to use it, Laura! Thanks -- I hope to get a blog post up this week. Judi

Maggie said...

So sorry for your loss, Judi. Thanks for the wonderful words of encouragement you posted on my blog today.

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